Wedding Officiants

We love to craft intentional, personal ceremonies that honor the most significant moments of life

Your wedding is just that - yours.

But it is also about the wider community that supports you.

We work with you to create a ceremony that reflects your values, vibe, and preferences while also considering the experience of your family and guests.

Every ceremony we officiate is organic to you. We love collaborating to envision ceremony elements unique to your relationship and community.

Our team is professional, experienced, relational, and at ease guiding you through your wedding experience.

Our custom wedding package includes:

  • Introductory consultation meeting

  • 2 one-hour ceremony planning sessions (either in-person in San Diego or virtual)

  • Custom wedding ceremony script

  • Assistance writing vows if needed

  • Marriage license signing

  • Rehearsal ceremony attendance (one-hour maximum)

  • Additional fees apply for travel, overnight accommodation, holidays, or late starts

What our clients are saying...

  • Melissa helped provide the bilingual ceremony of our dreams! She was an incredible resource during our ceremony planning. We felt heard all throughout the process. She went above and beyond to be intentional with the pieces of our ceremony that were most important to us.

    Lexii Mercado

  • Being a queer couple with a variety of religious backgrounds, working from scratch in that way, I truly don't think we could have worked with anyone else who could understand our core needs, envision different options, present those options with open hands, and ultimately put together a ceremony that we could have never imagined on our own.

    Sarah Holly Martin

  • We aren't the most religious couple - plus we have significant religious woundings - however, Melissa was so sensitive to this and respectfully and open-mindedly met us where we were at. She was the perfect combination of funny and deep/meaningful. I would recommend her in a heartbeat for anyone!

    Noelle Simpson-Koon

Looking for something a little different?

We also offer officiants for other important life events (like baby dedications, celebrations of life, pre-marital counseling, and other transitions) in addition to coaching on wedding officiating. Drop us a line and let us help out!